Talk That Transforms with Kim Davis

Sometimes the opportunities we want the most slip right through our hands—not because they weren’t meant for us, but because fear held us back.

Recently, I missed out on something I truly wanted. I was trying to look into every detail to make sure everything was right. I didn’t want to repeat mistakes from my past, so I slowed down, double-checked, and tried to protect myself. But while I was being careful, someone else moved fast and took the opportunity in seconds.

And honestly, it hurt. I really wanted it.

But in the middle of that disappointment, I learned something important. It’s okay to be scared. It’s okay to ask questions, to do your research, and to protect yourself. Those things are wise. The problem comes when we get stuck trying to prevent the past from happening again, and that fear keeps us from moving forward.

Not every opportunity will hurt you the way the last one did. Not every situation is the same. Growth means learning from the past—but not living in it.

Sometimes you have to take a step forward even when your heart is a little nervous. Sometimes faith requires movement, not just preparation.

Missing that opportunity taught me to move with wisdom, but also with courage. Because what’s meant for you often requires a decision, not just a deep inspection.

Have you ever been there—where fear caused you to miss something you really wanted?
How did you handle it, and what did you learn from it?

— Talk That Transforms with Kim Davis 💛